Episode 88 - Underground Saints - Steve Garland

Reid and Jesse are joined by UVA Head Wrestling Coach Steve Garland to hear his story about how Jesus rescued him and changed his life.

Reid and Jesse are joined by UVA Head Wrestling Coach Steve Garland to hear his story about how Jesus rescued him and changed his life.

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Show Notes

Our Guest - Steve Garland, Head Wrestling Coach, University of Virginia

Twitter - @stevegarland125

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“Our program philosophy is nothing complex, but it certainly is something we are proud of. We want our kids to live a focused, disciplined and consistent lifestyle both in and out of the wrestling room. What this means is that we expect them to develop a way of life while they are here, not just a set of improved wrestling skills. That said, our goals on the mat are extremely high. We want NCAA Champions and ACC Champions, but not at the expense of the student-athletes’ personal development.” – Steve Garland, head coach

STEVE GARLAND

  • Two ACC Championships (2010, 2015)

  • 2010 ACC Coach of the Year

  • NCWA Assistant Coach of the Year in 2006 while at Cornell

  • 2000 University of Virginia graduate

  • 2000 NCAA Runner-up, ACC Wrestler of the Year

  • 2000 All-American

  • 1997 ACC Champion

  • 3x ACC Finalist

Episode 87 - Faith, Hope and Love

Reid and Jesse discuss the theological virtues of faith, hope and love

Reid and Jesse discuss the theological virtues of faith, hope and love

Episode Video

Show Notes

Books Referenced

  1. Summa Theologiae by Thomas Aquinas Question #62 “The Theological Virtues”

  2. Faith in the Fire by Gardner C Taylor

  3. Faith. Hope. Love. The Christ-Centered Way to Grow in Grace by Mark Jones

  4. The Return of the King by J.R.R. Tolkien

Scripture Referenced

So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love. - 1 Corinthians 13:13

8 But since we belong to the day, let us be sober, having put on the breastplate of faith and love, and for a helmet the hope of salvation. 9 For God has not destined us for wrath, but to obtain salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ, 10 who died for us so that whether we are awake or asleep we might live with him. 11 Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing. - 1 Thessalonians 5:8-11

24 "Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock. 25 And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock. 26 And everyone who hears these words of mine and does not do them will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand. 27 And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell, and great was the fall of it." - Matthew 7:24-27

“He who testifies to these things says, ‘Surely I am coming soon.’ Amen. Come, Lord Jesus!” Revelation 22:20

9 Pray then like this: "Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name. 10 Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.  - Matthew 6:9-10

14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them.15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.16 Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight.17 Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all.18 If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. 19 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, "Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord." 20 To the contrary, "if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head." 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. - Romans 12:14-21

Quotations 

The Nicene Creed ends this way: We believe in the Holy Spirit, the Lord, the giver of life, who proceeds from the Father and the Son, who with the Father and the Son is worshipped and glorified, who has spoken through the prophets. We believe in one holy catholic and apostolic Church. We acknowledge one baptism for the forgiveness of sins. We look for the resurrection of the dead, and the life of the world to come. Amen."

Gandalf! I thought you were dead! But then I thought I was dead myself. Is everything sad going to come untrue? What's happened to the world?"

A great Shadow has departed," said Gandalf, and then he laughed and the sound was like music, or like water in a parched land; and as he listened the thought came to Sam that he had not heard laughter, the pure sound of merriment, for days upon days without count.”

― J.R.R. Tolkien, The Return of the King

See discussion in Michael Kruger, https://www.michaeljkruger.com/is-everything-sad-going-to-come-untrue-eschatology-in-the-lord-of-the-rings/

We have found our faith in the keeping power of God in flames and trials. Our faith, which holds, is born in the fire. All of us who have won are winning our faith in the fires, which have swept our lives. Those fires that scorch our inmost souls and sear our noblest dreams can declare that we know no other strength but that strength which is from above.

Taylor and Taylor, Faith in the Fire : Wisdom for Life, 210

Love is beyond any sickly sentimentality but hardheaded, softhearted good-will. Love is the word of selfless kindliness, God-touched concern. Real love is nobler and higher than other concerns. It goes on, despite barriers, doing its work, bearing its load, climbing its hill, and carrying its cross. It does not look for what it can get but what it can give. This kind of selfless, seeking goodwill is the essential element of good character. Love is the heartbeat of the Eternal. Love suggest that our hearts have been invaded by a desire to be aggressive, questing and seeking goodwill. We Can’t trust this kind of love because it is lasting, rugged, and endures the test.

Gardner C. Taylor, faith in the fire, wisdom for life., Page 29–30.

To be a Christian, one must possess faith, hope, and love. To miss one is to have missed them all; to have one is to have them all. They all depend on one another. We believe in God’s love; we hope for God’s love; and we love him for his love. Yet love is the greatest because it’s limits extend beyond the limits of faith and hope. We believe for ourselves in order to be justified. We hope for ourselves in order to receive what is promised. But we love not only for ourselves but also for others...

Mark Jones, Faith. Hope. Love. The Christ-Centered Way to Grow in Grace. 248.

Episode 86 - Strength & Courage

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Our Guest Today

Virginia Tech Associate Head Wrestling Coach, Jared Frayer @AirFrayer

Coach Jared Frayer joined the VA Teach coaching staff three years ago and has been instrumental in developing the Hokie middle weights with several All Americans and the first national champion in Mekhi Lewis. Coach Frayer was a two time All-American for the University of Oklahoma. After college Frayer was an accomplish freestyle wrestler placing in the top six in the US World or Olympic trials 7 times culminating in winning the spot on the 2012 London Olympic Games at 66kg (145.51lbs for the civilians listening in)

https://hokiesports.com/sports/wrestling/roster/coaches/jared-frayer/1370

Show Notes

Quotations

I submit to you today that, despite the American victory in the Cold War (for which we should all be grateful) and the collapse and disappearance of the Soviet Union, nothing has changed that would diminish the force or relevance of Solzhenitsyn’s words. The virtue we lack—and it is an indispensable virtue—is courage. And we must recover it. Our young men and women must regain it—not to defend us from a hostile foreign power armed with nuclear weapons, but to protect us from a far more dangerous foe, a truly deadly enemy: our own worst selves.”

From Article, Solzenitsyns Prophecy, Robert P. George is McCormick Professor of Jurisprudence and director of the James Madison Program in American Ideals and Institutions at Princeton University.

I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.

From Nelson Mandela, Mandela in His Own Words.

Did we in our own strength confide, Our striving would be losing; Were not the right Man on our side, The Man of God’s own choosing: Dost ask who that may be? Christ Jesus, it is He; Lord Sabaoth His Name, From age to age the same, And He must win the battle.

Martin Luther, A Mighty Fortress

Scriptures Referenced

Joshua 1:6-9

6 Be strong and courageous, for you shall cause this people to inherit the land that I swore to their fathers to give them. 7 Only be strong and very courageous, being careful to do according to all the law that Moses my servant commanded you. Do not turn from it to the right hand or to the left, that you may have good success wherever you go. 8 This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success. 9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go."

2 Corinthians 12:9-10

9 But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. 10 For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

Isaiah 43:1-3

1But now thus says the LORD, he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: “Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine. 2When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you. 3 For I am the LORD your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior.

Hebrews 13:1-6

1 Let brotherly love continue. 2 Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares. 3 Remember those who are in prison, as though in prison with them, and those who are mistreated, since you also are in the body. 4 Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. 5 Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, "I will never leave you nor forsake you." 6 So we can confidently say, "The Lord is my helper; I will not fear; what can man do to me?"

Episode 85 - Love for Local Neighbors

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Show Notes

Our Guest Today

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Dr. Abraham Hardee is a father, husband and former Virginia Tech Hokie. Along with being a practicing physician, Abraham B. Hardee, III, DO, PhD, ABOFP is the Associate Chair for Primary Care for Rural and Medically Underserved Populations at The Edward Via College of Osteopathic Medicine. He makes his home in Blacksburg VA and runs high level family and medical game with his with Sophia Abraham-Hardee DO, PhD, FACOP, FAAP.

Scripture Referenced

Mark 12:28-31

28 And one of the scribes came up and heard them disputing with one another, and seeing that he answered them well, asked him, "Which commandment is the most important of all?" 29 Jesus answered, "The most important is, 'Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. 30 And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.' 31 The second is this: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no other commandment greater than these."

Luke 10:25-37 25

And behold, a lawyer stood up to put him to the test, saying, "Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?" 26 He said to him, "What is written in the Law? How do you read it?" 27 And he answered, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself." 28 And he said to him, "You have answered correctly; do this, and you will live." 29 But he, desiring to justify himself, said to Jesus, "And who is my neighbor?" 30 Jesus replied, "A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and he fell among robbers, who stripped him and beat him and departed, leaving him half dead. 31 Now by chance a priest was going down that road, and when he saw him he passed by on the other side. 32 So likewise a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. 33 But a Samaritan, as he journeyed, came to where he was, and when he saw him, he had compassion. 34 He went to him and bound up his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he set him on his own animal and brought him to an inn and took care of him. 35 And the next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper, saying, 'Take care of him, and whatever more you spend, I will repay you when I come back.' 36 Which of these three, do you think, proved to be a neighbor to the man who fell among the robbers?" 37 He said, "The one who showed him mercy." And Jesus said to him, "You go, and do likewise."

Episode 84 - Civility and Kindness

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Books Referenced

Links Referenced

“You are not a social media handle. Don't feel pressure to post and repost everything to show that you care. Advocate locally, be incarnate, do the work in your community, church, etc. Let's get it done today.“

Dr. Walter Strickland, Tweet, June 2.


Scripture Referenced

  • Gentleness and Respect - 1 Peter 3:15

  • On Listening - James 1:19,20; Ecclesiastes 5:1-3

  • On Controlling our Speech - James 1:26; Proverbs 10:19; 27:2; 30:32

  • On Anger - Proverbs 22:24; 29:22; Psalm 37:8; Ephesians 4:26

  • On Love - 1 John 3:16-18; 1 Peter 4:7-9


Episode 82 - Time to Build

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Show Notes

Our Guest

Rob Zimmerman is an engineer, inventor, and entrepreneur who makes his home in the Dallas-Fort Worth metroplex. Reid had the privilege of baptizing Rob and his wife Christine when they were members of Jacobs Well, the church we planted, in New Jersey.

Rob received a BS in Mechanical Engineering from Iowa State and a Masters of Business Administration from Arizona State. He is a husband, a father of three, and one dog named Max. Rob has been a friend for about a decade and is known to message with me from time to time about the UFC and cryptocurrency.

Links Referenced

Scriptures Referenced

  • Creation and the Cultural Mandate - Genesis 1:26-28

  • The Duty of Governments - Romans 13:1-7

  • Love God with our Minds, Love our Neighbors - Matthew 22:34-40

Episode 80 - Men, Marriage, and Fatherhood

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Our Guests

Andre Davis

  • Came to Va Tech from the bulging metropolis of Niskayuna NY

  • Soccer player, track runner, turned football player

  • Caught Mike Vick and Grant Noel TDs for the Hokies

  • Returned punts and kicks for more touchdowns

  • Drafted in the 2nd round of the NFL draft by the Cleveland Browns. Browns, Patriots, Texans

  • Works in Non-Profit leadership, Various Business Ventures and is an Ambassador for the VT Hokies athletic dept.

Dr. Abraham (aka Billy) Hardee

  • Father was a VT legend

  • Was a soccer player growing up in Florida

  • Transferred in and Walked on to the VT football team eventually earned a scholarship where he was a starter in the VT secondary.

  • Medical School, currently my doctor, wife is a doctor, both he and his wife Sophia are med school professor doctas

Willie Pile 

  • Marching band, basketball and football in Alexandria VA

  • VT All Big East, All American Free Safety

  • Drafted by Kansas City Chiefs, Four your career for KC and Dallas Cowboys, 5 years with Toronto Argonauts of the CFL

  • Founder and President of Train FAAST

  • And RECENT guest on Episode 76 of the Gospel Underground

Links Referenced

Scriptures Referenced

  • Psalm 145:1-7

  • Ephesians 6:1-4

Episode 79 - Wrestling with Mental Toughness

Reid interviews Virginia Tech wrestling coaches Tony Robie and Jared Haught on developing mental toughness in life.

Reid interviews Virginia Tech wrestling coaches Tony Robie and Jared Haught on developing mental toughness in life.

Show Notes

Our Guests

Head Coach Tony Robie

https://hokiesports.com/staff-directory/tony-robie/207

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Coach Tony Robie is the Head Coach of the division one wrestling powerhouse, Virginia Tech Hokies. Robie has been the Head Coach for three years after spending 11 years prior as assistant coach, associate head coach. He has coached multiple NCAA All-Americans as well as the first Division 1 national champion for the Hokies. As a competitor he was a two time All-American and NCAA finalist at Edinboro University (PA) with a career record 126-23.

Coach Jared Haught

https://hokiesports.com/sports/wrestling/roster/coaches/jared-haught/1373

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Haught was a two-time ACC champion, four-time NCAA qualifier and a three-time All-American for the Hokies from 2014-18. As a senior, Haught became only the second Tech wrestler and the first West Virginia native to make it to a national final when he reached the championship match at 197 pounds at the 2018 NCAA Championships in Cleveland. He placed sixth at NCAAs in 2016, fourth in 2017 and second in 2018.

Books Referenced

Links Referenced

"Mental toughness is the ability to resist, manage and overcome doubts, worries, concerns and circumstances that prevent you from succeeding, or excelling at a task or towards an objective or a performance outcome that you set out to achieve."

https://www.mentaltoughnessinc.com/what-is-mental-toughness/

Scripture References

1 Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2 looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God. 3 Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted. - Hebrews 12:1-3

21 For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps. 22 He committed no sin, neither was deceit found in his mouth. 23 When he was reviled, he did not revile in return; when he suffered, he did not threaten, but continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly. 24 He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed. 25 For you were straying like sheep, but have now returned to the Shepherd and Overseer of your souls. - 1 Peter 2:21-25

Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go." - Joshua 1:9

Episode 78 - Whither God and Viruses

What is the place of viruses in God’s good, yet fallen, creation.

What is the place of viruses in God’s good, yet fallen, creation.

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Show Notes

Links Referenced

Scriptures Referenced

  • Genesis 3

  • Romans 8:18-25

  • Miracles of Jesus in Mark chapters 1-5

  • Revelation 21:1-4

Book Referenced

Episode 77 - What Does Reid Do?

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Show Notes


Over the last several years I have been asked, “Reid, what is it you are doing these days?” There is a short and a long answer to this question. The short answer is that I help strengthen and encourage churches, I share the gospel with students, and I help thoughtfully engage others with the good news in our current cultural moment. The longer answer? Well, my friends Ryan Baitzel and Steve Hawthorne from Emergence Church in NJ recently interviewed me related to that question. My wife thought the audio/video from this could be helpful in answering this question a little bit more, so here is a little of my story and what I am up to today.

Also, towards the end of the episode, Reid answers a very important question: Soccer or Wrestling?

Episode 75 - Audiobooks Extravaganza

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Show Notes

Recommended Audiobooks from Reid

Favorites

  1. Boys in the Boat by Daniel James Brown

  2. Unbroken and Sea Biscuit by Lauren Hillanbrand

  3. The Devil in White City by Erik Larson

Recommended

  • Creative Non Fiction - Works of Erik Larson, Ben McIntrye, and Candice Maillard

  • History and Biography - Works of Roger Crowley, David McCullough, and The Roosevelt Trilogy by Edmund Morris

  • History of Technology - Becoming Steve Jobs, Steve Jobs by Walter Issacson, The Second Coming of Steve Jobs, iWoz, The Perfect Thing by Daniel Levy, The Pixar Touch by David Price, Hatching Twitter by Nick Bilton, The Everything Store by Brad Stone

Business and Leadership Books - Malcolm Gladwell, Seth Godin, Leadership by Sir Alex Ferguson

Recommended Audiobooks from Kayla

Favorites

  • The Hiding Place by Corrie ten Boom, John and Elizabeth Sherrill

  • The Chronicles of Narnia by CS Lewis

  • C.S. Lewis by Alister E McGrath

  • The Pixar Touch by David A. Price

  • The Boys in the Boat by Daniel James Brown

  • Mud, Sweat, and Tears by Bear Grylls

  • Kenobi: A Stat Wars Tale by John Jackson Miller

For Kids

  • Johnny Tremain by Esther Forbes

  • Guardians of Ga'Hoole by Kathryn Lasky

  • From the Mixed up Files of Mrs Basil E Frankenwiler by E.L. Koingsburg

  • Story of the World by Susan Weiss Bauer available from www.welltrainedmind.com

  • Magic Thief by Sarah Prineas

  • Redwall by Brian Jacques

Episode 74 - Coronavirus Abroad

Reid talks to friends in London, Paris, and Southern Asia during the COVID-19 quarantine .

Reid talks to friends in London, Paris, and Southern Asia during the COVID-19 quarantine .

SHOW NOTES

Scripture Referenced

[6] Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, [7] casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. [8] Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. [9] Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world. [10] And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you. [11] To him be the dominion forever and ever. Amen.

1 Peter 5:6–11 ESV

Episode 73 - A COVID Culture Survival Guide

Reid and Jesse discuss keeping hope anchored and life connected during a time of quarantine and crisis.

Reid and Jesse discuss keeping hope anchored and life connected during a time of quarantine and crisis.

Show Notes

Links Referenced 

Book Referenced 

Scriptures Referenced 

  • Hebrews 6:19

  • Romans 15:12

  • Romans 15:4

  • Psalm 39:7

Episode 72 - Kids and Coronavirus

Reid and the Monaghan Kids discuss the effects of the CoVID-19 Pandemic on kids.

Reid and the Monaghan Kids discuss the effects of the CoVID-19 Pandemic on kids.

Episode 71 - Coronavirus with a Lemon or a Lime?

Reid and Jesse discuss responding to the COVID-19 Pandemic of 2020

Reid and Jesse discuss responding to the COVID-19 Pandemic of 2020

Show Notes

Books Referenced 

Links Referenced 

Scriptures Referenced

  • Ecclesiastes 12:13, 14

  • Proverbs 1

  • 1 Peter 5:7

  • Ephesians 2:8,9

  • Psalm 56:3,4

Episode 70 - Meaningless! Meaningless?

Reid and Jesse discuss meaning and purpose and the effects of loss on a coming generation

Reid and Jesse discuss meaning and purpose and the effects of loss on a coming generation

Episode 69 - Seeing Cross-eyed

Reid and Jesse talk about shifts in western ideas, worldview and identities and how it has resulted with the cultural moment in which we find ourselves.

Reid and Jesse talk about shifts in western ideas, worldview and identities and how it has resulted with the cultural moment in which we find ourselves.

Show Notes

Links Referenced 

Episode 68 - Through the Eye

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Show Notes

Related Scriptures 

Genesis 1, Genesis 3, John 1, Revelation 21, Romans 12:1,2

Quotations

This life’s dim windows of the soul, Distorts the heavens from pole to pole. And leads you to believe a lie, When you see with, not through, the eye.

William Blake, http://metaphors.iath.virginia.edu/metaphors/8661

And my haunting instinct that somehow good was not merely a tool to be used, but a relic to be guarded, like the goods from Crusoe's ship--even that had been the wild whisper of something originally wise, for, according to Christianity, we were indeed the survivors of a wreck, the crew of a golden ship that had gone down before the beginning of the world. - GK Chesterton, Orthodoxy

God is like the sun; you cannot look at it, but without it you cannot look at anything else. - GK Chesterton

I believe in Christianity as I believe that the sun has risen. Not only because I see it, but because by it I see everything else. - CS Lewis

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